Originally Posted by
bbthumper 
I would strongly encourage you to find someone you can talk to about this, move on with the steps with guidance from fellow AAs and seek another sponsor. The 8th step is a classic falling off point for so many and loss of momentum could be fatal.
I agree. What's just as dangerous as losing momentum is making amends without the proper guidance. We can do more harm than good. I am sorry to hear your sponsor is not well at the moment. Hopefully she will come out of this alright. But it's your sobriety and program that you need to focus on.
Like BBT suggested, find someone who you can discuss this, and seek counsel with another AA who has worked the steps. Good luck - I am sure you will find that person sooner than later
