Curmudgeon, Electrical Engineer, Guitar God Wannabe
Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Where the mighty arms of Atlas hold the heavens from the Earth
Posts: 3,403
I told my AGF that I was willing to tolerate the up's and down's associated with her "recovery" (HA!), but I would not tolerate her being unfaithful.
And she was. On more than one occasion. Washed my hands clean of that, and that's that.
Speaking only for myself, when I think back to all the times she came and stayed over my house, knowing now what she was doing behind my back, I feel sick. It's such a slimy, nasty feeling, even now.
When someone is behaving in a manner that runs contrary to your value system, you shouldn't have to compromise that value system for anyone. Remember that.
ZoSo