Cheating and cocaine addiction
Just been reading Broken101's post about her cheating 'partner'. What is the story with addiction and sexual / cheating betrayal??? As 'Outtolunch' puts - cheating is NEVER acceptable NOR is lying... yet it seems that so many people (me included) have made 'allowances' for our addict - for the simple reason they are an addict. I have read so many times that cocaine addiction (especially) leads to sexual addiction / straying from your partner/ numerous partners etc etc. Is there ANY room to 'blame' it all on the drugs - or is it truly simply a 'personality flaw' escacerbrated (spelling???) by drug use???
H has lied to me so many times this past year I can't begin to count..... but I have finally reached that place (also with the help of going no contact) - that I have had enough. It is such a pleasure NOT speaking to him in a day - for there is no more wasted time wondering if he is telling me the truth or not.... what a time saver!!!!