Your right Xune about the privacy vs. secret thing.
I know its something I need to think seriously about, but not something I need to stress so much about and possibly make me want to pick up.
If I'm honest with myself I have to admit I thought about.......what if she tells her other friends? I know them and like them but wouldn't want them to know my personal business. I don't want to be labeled "that" girl with the problem. I know she has told me stuff about them that I have wondered if they would be ok with it.
Maybe I do need to get farther along in my sobriety. Maybe just think on it so more.
Thanks for your advice. I really appreciate it.