Originally Posted by
andisa 
curious, babygrandx, how's the relationship working out for you? My story is almost exactly the same, except baby came along 3 years ago. Relationship is still sick. Neither he nor I did the work necessary to be first healthy ourselves.
We are very happy together. Like I said, he's been around for a minute now so he has had the time to practice the spiritual principals in his daily life, build a network, get some steps under his belt and I am obviously a lot newer than him but he has been very supportive and very understanding of my own personal growth with my recovery, and my God. We keep our recovery not only first, but separate from each others. Maybe you guys should take some time for yourselves? It's so important!