Originally Posted by pattyj

Your post, TrixMixer, really hit home. I am not a big celebratory person either, except for the major milestones. I hate Valentine's Day but we did something special for being together 5 years, about a year ago. I have been making a big deal about turning 30 in the last month or so. I will not tell him to get me anything but when he spoils himself like that, I would think he would include me with it being a milestone birthday. If I was drinking, I would have gone for the throat as well; bitchy, pissed, crying, yelling, all in front of him. Now, I am just sad and really disappointed.