I plan to use some of my fantastic living social vouchers to take myself out for a facial, massage and pedicure. After I told bf that I was jealous that my sister spent the day at the spa, he asked why I didn't take the day off. I replied that I didn't have anything to do and didn't realize that I had to plan my own birthday. All he said was sorry. In the past, if he doesn't have anything for me the day of my birthday, he will tell me that something is coming in the mail. I don't drink so I know that he is not planning any kind of party. He grew up with a father who spoiled the heck out of his mother for birthdays and special occasions so I know he knows what to do. I can't help that it still hurts and the more I talk/think about it the more pissed I get. What really bugs me is all the gifts he bought himself in the last month and all I get is a dinner with the help of a coupon.