Thanks so much to everybody for replying! I actually talked to my husband a bit about this last night and he's a ton more willing to work with me on this than what I think is healthy for me. But I'm finding it easier to stop worrying just knowing that if I need to call him for some stupid fear that I have....I can and he won't mind.
Anyway I've made an appointment to see a therapist so maybe I can find a more permanent solution. I'll be sure to post any words of wisdom I get.
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It's a good book, but I get stuck with much of the language she uses, but that's probably just me or maybe I should have started witht the first one first??? Hum?
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Shutterbug - Yeah I felt the same way about the wording and in the first book she really does a great job of telling you what she means by certain things. Goodness even the terms "codependent" and "detachment" mean something different now that I have started reading it. Unfortunatley as she puts in it's a lot of shrink jargon so it doesn't tend to mean exactly what it sounds like.
P.S. I didn't even know there was a second book. Yay! I was all prepared to be sad when I finished the first and had nothings more to read.