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The heart doesn't catch on...
good one.. that's exactly what it feels like.
Irrational fears...
Yup... I can have someone dead and buried if they are 10 mins late as well.
I think anything can be overcome as long as everyone involved understands what the problem is and how it is going to be overcome.
Sure we should be able to calm our own fears... but I think we first have to let ourselves fully feel the fear... and work it out to its end. I think lots of our fears are based in past events that were never resolved... so they automaticly come up first and then we tack the present worry on top of that... so... it's pretty hard to be rational in the face of that.
I do know that I can't will myself not to worry...
I either have to take the direct approach or sit on my hands and feel the pain.
Do you think your husband will work with you on this?
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