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Old 09-04-2012, 05:49 PM
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tjp613
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I would wait until she ASKS to come home. Tell her you will meet with her to discuss it and then drive her straight to the lab for a hair follicle test. If she is using drugs a hair follicle test will tell you what she has been using for the last 90 days. Do not give her warning that this will take place -- there are methods they can use to cheat the test. If she refuses the test, you will also have the information you need.

She has to want recovery to have any kind of chance whatsoever. So, when will she want it? When the pain (consequences) of continued drug use is worse than the pain of quitting -- only then.
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