I realize that this discussion has been "asleep" for about one month, but would like to add my $.02 worth. I've only just recently resumed using the Tao for my meditations, and I cannot say that I am particularly fluent or knowledgeable. But I have managed to remain clean and sober with a diety for a long time, so perhaps I can add to this topic.
I don't believe that I am sober today because a diety swooped in and made me sober. I surrendered, and in doing so I made myself available to what the universe had to offer. I tend to use that approach in AA when the language turns to god-things. No one had removed my character defects, but those that are less glaring today are those I have released. It's like having a baloon attached to a string...and letting the wind carry it away. I don't pray to have things removed. I meditate to become willing to let go of them.