Originally Posted by
Dezi88 
I have the same problem. I had to take my ua's at 9am so I'd get up early that day and pee then drink plenty of water before I went in. Worked every time pretty much.
That doesnt work if you totaly cant, it just makes it totaly hurt but the problem remains.
There is such a stigma on this thing especially on guys, "you can't pee when someone is looking" give me a break, A real man could stand up pee off the stage at a rock concert... Combine that with the accusations of drug use that often come when someone states they can't pee under pressure. Combine that with the guy looking "tough" makes it even worse.
There is a whole website on this
IPA - International Paruresis Association , quoting and linking to wiki-pedia like above I was told is cheesy but I do it anyway.
P.S I learned about this years ago when I asked my old psychiatrist for some extra xanax to help me with this, I got a note allowing me to pee in private instead.