TanyaScared
I'm sorry you are in this situation. It is 100% your decision to stay and marry this mess. The just weed thing is well, very underestimated. But hey, free like to marry or shack up. Just be aware you are being given some very been down that road advice from people who walked your shoes and suffered years for it. 100% your decision and 100% your ownership for failure. Not 50/50 but 100% as you now know and making a decision on your own.
I wish you well and the story is already written on your life with him..
AG