Hi, Welcome to SR,
I don't have the answers you are looking for, but just wanted to let you know someone will see this eventually and identify and respond. I don't have a bipolar spouse, but I have a good friend who was just diagnosed about 6 weeks ago and was doing pretty well on her meds, but all of a sudden decided that she "was healed by God and didn't need her meds." I am a believer and don't discount healing, but she is back to some extremely bizarre behavior and her husband is so overwhelmed he can't seem to see she is in danger. I am scared for her safety as she is feeling pretty invincible and I fear she may do something that will harm her or others. I have talked to her husband, and our pastor, ( we go to the same church) and the latter is going to contact her husband, ( our pastor has also seen the same behavior).
I wish I had the answers you are looking for, but if you need to "talk" adn vent, we are here.
