| Infidelity: 2nd time around
Well, I wanted to believe it wuold never happen again... But alas... My spouse has been sober for 4+ years but has really neglected program for the past 6-8 months. Lots of changes in behavior, much more cold, isolated. I thought, oh oh... drinking. But no. It was another affair. 2nd one in 4 years. So, I try to refocus on me, but I can't kid myself. I love this person with all of my heart and I want to save my marriage, but how can I when there's cheating and lying. And she's sober! At least, 'not drinking.'
Has anyone had any success with staying the course if they work their Al Anon program? I need some words of wisdom gang. My heart feels broken.
Magpie
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