Originally Posted by
Ann 
HopefulGF, I hope that you help yourself more, to become less enmeshed in his addiction and maybe more into what's good for you. Have you tried any meetings?
Al-anon, Nar-Anon and CoDa are three similar fellowships that have helped many of us regain our balance and sanity. Maybe give them a try.
Hugs
There is less than a handful of Nar-Anon meetings in my general area which I'm su rprised since I live near one semi-major city and the 1 or 2 that I could potentially go to, I've either missed because of work and getting home too late or foolishly blew off because I didn't have the energy.
But emotionally, I don't think I can sink much lower and need some kind of help. I reached out to one person I trust and found that she has been dealing with the same thing with her son for 8 years. Sad, so very sad. But it helps to talk - and vent - with someone else who understands so I know now that a meeting would be greatly beneficial. Thank you for taking the time to post.