I suggested a letter, Muststop, because its possible this man may not even get the forgiveness he wants. It's not about that. We keep our side of the street clean. If the other person(s) cant or wont forgive it's sad, but the action of making amends has been done. I also suggested a letter because a face to face meeting may get messy, and even backfire, making things worse, plus there's the fact that aliveforme is very uncomfortable about her husband making this part of the step...0