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I feel so for you and your wife. I can understand your grief. As a mother of an AD, we went through 1 abortion and 1 unborn infant death due to a car accident. We still grieve over them but we have carried on. It has been very hard for my daughter especially for the one she lost due to her careless driving.
She is doing well though, and laughing again, trying to get her life in order and to give a lot to the one child she does have, a beautiful 5 year old girl.
Along with me, my daughter has suffered from depression for a long time and has recently been diagnosed bi-polar. She is also on Prozac and Lithium and appears to be doing pretty good as of late. She also has addiction problems due to her self medicating and trying to do away with the symptoms of bi-polar disorder.
As stated above, try not to dwell on what is done. What is, is. Move forward, even though you have your grief, console and help each other through it. Acknowledge your feelings and accept them. It's ok to feel this way, it really is. You will start to feel better soon and things will fall into place.
A story I like is the one about a gardener. It goes...A gardener is never as close to the vine as when he is pruning it. That is the same with our Higher Power. Our Higher Power is never as close to us as when he is "pruning" us. That is, in order for us to grow, flourish and bloom, we first must feel the pruning, or the pain it takes to grow.
I sincerely hope and pray that you and your wife will find peace and acceptance. Know that you have support and love here, always.
Blessings and Love to you both,
~*Wolfstarr*~
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