Thank you so much for the feedback. That is the problem I am dealing with right now, the fact that everyone says I can do better and wants me to be done with him. When he is sober he is the most amazing guy in the world and I just feel like I can't give up on that guy because of this problem. He never really had a stable father figure in his life and any that have tried to fill that position have walked out on him and his family so I feel like leaving him isn't even an option. I couldn't do that to my best friend.
Do I just go to any meetings? I don't even know what to look for looking for a 12 step meeting.