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Old 01-30-2012, 03:27 PM
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EnglishGarden
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You cannot believe anything he tells you. Nothing. And my instinct is that he was not clean for the time he told you he was.

If you stay with him, please attend a 12 step group because a drug addict boyfriend knows all the ways to gaslight you (make you think you're the crazy one, not him), so you need people in recovery on the outside to give you clear feedback because you will not be thinking clearly.

I'm sorry for your heartache. So sorry and hope you do seek help for yourself. Everyone will want you to cut contact with him and you may not be ready yet, so if you can go to weekly meetings, please do that at least.

And not HIS meetings. YOURS.

Wishing you good support and a clear head.
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