Old 01-28-2012, 06:02 AM
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Originally Posted by mcbb79 View Post

Today she called and it was a great 2 minute talk. But a few hours later she called back, I couldn't pick up as I was with my boss at work. She left a message and was kind of crying saying she felt ****** that I did not say I loved her back after she said she loved me. But I remember telling her I loved her before we said goodbye. And I cant communicate with her until Monday at least. And she said but shes going to "try and have a better day" and she wants me too also.. I dont get it? Maybe shes upset because I told her I'm getting help also?? We've never been apart and its so hard with so little communication
Oh for crying out loud...

She sounds a tad needy. Is she normally ( whatever that is given she's been addicted to opiates for 4 years) this needy? She's in the right place to learn how to cope with the usual ups and downs of life without using drugs.

Continue to focus on your own growth and recovery. That's the only thing you control.
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