Welcome! I, too was a control freak who got out of control. Trying to control everything caused me so much grief, I'm glad to finally get out of it. I'm Anna, recovering alcoholic. I began drinking to deal with depression and physical pain and in no time at all, I couldn't stop and didn't want to stop. I had given everything to my husband and kids and not taken care of myself at all. I was completely lost. I couldn't imagine getting through a day with alcohol.
But, finally I stopped and realized that life without alcohol is wonderful. You can stop drinking today and begin to feel better physically and emotionally. It's hard to do, but so worth it and we're here to help support you.
__________________ Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.