Just an update on my last post. My AH decided to go on a binge instead of picking up our grandson. He left our daughter-in-law hanging like he does me. He disappeared, didn't go to his usual establishment. No phone calls to anyone. The daughter-in-law was very angry that he would disappoint his grandson. He keeps doing this I'm afraid they will keep our grandson from him. I have tried to tell him that this could happen all he says is he doesn't care. I am tired of living like this, I need to seriously consider moving on and starting over at 48.