Thread: Blaming others.
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Old 08-07-2011, 06:02 AM
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SomethingBetter
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I think that’s my biggest issue, my wife has changed in the last six months and it’s left me feeling resentful.

At first after I quit drinking…
I couldn’t make her upset, as long as I wasn’t drinking all was bliss to her
I took my iPad to bed every night and read, no problems at all
When I was upset she was the first to realize I needed support
The list goes on

But now after almost 6 months…
She gets upset with me easily
She hates the light at night from the iPad
She hardly notices if I need support

As Carol said, others don’t always understand us or what we go through, we need to accept responsibility for ourselves, and I need to take that same advice, thanks
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