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Hey Zeph,
What is your definition of an ultimatum? That's probably key here. What is non-negotiable for you? Can you continue on in a relationship with someone who isn't being faithful to you? And if you can, will that make you happy?
You can't force her to do anything. You can tell her what your boundaries are and what you can accept or not accept.
My point is, be clear on what you need and what she is capable of giving in return.
And feel free to rant away. That's why we're here.
Gabe
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