i kind of fall into the category Elaine2 said - not bad all the time andwho wants to start over (at 52 for me). al-anon is slowly helping me and i have visited with my eap (employee assistance program) counselor at work and am going to get a referral for a therapist. i hope that these tools and also this site will help me - it already has! the folks here have been great and someone always answers you post no matter what time of day or night!
hugs to you disappointed
hugs to all who share their thoughts and knowledge!
cwohio