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Hey Everyone,
I am Zeph. I am new to this forum. I have been through a very traumatic experience recently and it has cuased my depression to kick into high gear.
My wife of 21 years began seeing someone else. It almost ended mour marriage. Actually, it probably strengthed our marriage in the long run, but now I look at things differently and I am confused, wooried, or depressed a lot.
I gave her an ultimatum but it did no good. In fact, we I allowed the realtionship to continue, we got closer. I think it is unconditional love (if such a thing exists). I don't want to start making rules for the woman I love. I have so many issues myself, if I can't allow her to have this issue she may lose tolerance with me.
Everyone I have talked to has said I need to force her to end it or else. Except the "or else" part is soemthing I do not want. I will lose my house, family, etc.
Since this has all happened, I find myself woryying about other things more as weel. Things like money, freinds, family, etc. I feel as if I have no friends, may wife's family has been very cold (they are upset because I will not enforce an ultimatum), and I am terrified about many things.
Sorry for ranting. I just wanted to jump into this forum and see what others think.
Thanks,
Zeph
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