Hey disappointed,
You don't have to "just live" with anything.
The constant disappointments are hard.
We get to choose whether or not we will continue to live with them.
That can be a difficult choice to make.
One thing I did while I was dealing with active addiction was to always have a Plan B.
That way if his drinking iterfered with our plans, I always had a back up plan.
I figured that way, I was being just as cunning and baffling as the disease.
Welcome to Sober Recovery. I'm glad you're here.
Gabe