He says that if I had done what he wanted, there wouldn't be a divorce.
I didn't even get to the next sentence.
That one in itself made me go "Danger, Will Robinson!" and think of polite ways to say "RUN!!!!!"
My A told me that if I gave him oral sex every day he would stop drinking. And if I just wasn't so damn fat he wouldn't have to drink. And if I could just get a real job and help support the family he wouldn't be so stressed and wouldn't have to drink.
Any time someone tries to blame their behavior (whether it's drinking or filing for divorce) on how you
didn't do what they wanted you to, it's time to head for the hills. That person is not in a
relationship; that person sees you as
furniture.
Sorry if that sounds harsh but that's sort of my hard-earned opinion...