Thanks for the thread. I have read it a few times now. Thanks for reminding me of what is possible. This whole thread stirs something in my soul.
When I accept whatever is present, I often get a strong sense of contentment. Even when I hold sadness, reactivity, anger, etc. with love and gentleness, I feel content. It's so peaceful. Much more peaceful than trying not to feel something.
I love the idea of redefining happiness, since happiness was often part of my goal with drinking. Yet- there is a profound sense of joy, happiness, and contentment that comes with sobriety.