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Old 04-14-2011, 11:33 PM
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hades
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Update ... so there was a change to his sentence and he will be out in months as opposed to years! And with that, he had a complete change of heart. I'm confused. He let me go, now he doesn't want to. Now he wants to prove himself and desires "something he can believe in, trust and live for."



My gut is telling me ... now if I truly love him, I would let him work on himself without any distractions. I think uninterrupted TIME for both of us would do wonders. There is a lot I want to work on in myself, without him. Things I need to make peace with. He is still an addict, in jail and isn't really in recovery. Could he contribute to a relationship? Is he capable? I'm going to stay no contact. I miss him very much, but I think it's for the best. Am I doing the right thing?
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