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Thank you both, Gabe and H. Gabe, I am contiously looking for new groups,just to stay out of cliques and pulled into any rumour mongering.I hate it,it's destructive and petty. Recently, at a meeting, a new girl started to cry and said that she had never met such a bunch of"bitchy" women.No telephone numbers, snide comments etc..She wasn't coming anymore because of this.This happened to me too so it wasn't just her "recovery issues".I tried to fight it, to talk but basically, it was useless.
So, let's see, I start with great intentions,am friendly,open and giving but then what happens is weird,maybe I'm too friendly and open . Can't win really.So I wander..
I am most of all trying to be the best person I can, honest with myself and true to my feelings.I'm here to learn, not to be told what to do as an adult.Listening to guidelines and MYOB'ing,minding my own business. It's not that difficult really
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