I've done Al-Anon, but I work two jobs to keep afloat. I have very little if any contact with my ex, but when I do, it just blows my mind. Ok so excuse the brainwash accusation. But he has been phsically sober for a year. and these are the reponses. God forbid my parents die and he never makes amends, they are everything to my children. They treated this man like a son.What do you make of that response? Or his attempt to make amends with his kids? Never mind me!