Good Morning Lynda. It's always the other person's fault in any kind of relationship weather it's a using one or not if two people are not mature enough to deal with things as they come. In my past relationships I have been accused of everything under the sun and punished ta boot. It still goes on,but for me, I'm just on top of the situation and I stay very far away physically from that other person and only have contact when need be. If someon els punishing me now and I can't get my point across,then I learn to igonor and stay away. It's very hard to do. It takes two though to fight,so that those or them fight by themselves while your out enjoying your life! congrats on makeing good choices today! And Welcome to SR!
