I'll check out the link in a few minutes.
I just wanted to say I do understand. I don't keep it a secret anymore. My close friends know. And as of a couple months ago so does everyone in the town nearby.
I ran into an old acquaintance several weeks ago. She said to me, "How's your husband? I haven't seen him in nearly forever." I replied, "He doesn't leave home unless he has to. He still works on his projects in the early morning but by nine o'clock he's sitting in the yard drinking beer until time to each lunch and take a nap."
I know this gal will tell the world her news. I've felt so free since that afternoon.