...and you know I think you are pretty damn cool.
As far as,
Originally Posted by
Tuffgirl 
I'll never be a priority with that in the picture.
My wife and I, who are still together after all the ******** we put each other through, have had to prioritize and set boundaries based on the following list (it is the only way we can stay together):
- AA for her, Alanon for me.
- Our Daughter.
- Our relationship.
Sadly, neither one of us will ever be a priority over our recovery or our daughter. Happily, we are both really pleased with the results of prioritizing in such a fashion. I can truly say that the last 8 months have been the best months of our relationship (which began in 1998).
Take what you want and leave the rest.
Cyranoak