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iheartsushi I do see your point here. I have come to the realization that in order for me to be healthy moving forward, I may have to cut her from my life, as sad and heartbroken as it will be. While I do not have opposition for her boyfriend - I love him dearly too and have not been subjected to seeing his 'other side', I am just at a loss of how to help. Maybe I just cannot.
Another choice can also be to stand by her as her friend, but to firmly refuse to discuss him any longer. You can inform her once of the reason you no longer wish to discuss him, and then leave it at that.