Firstly, I did not type "mommy" and do not appreciate you minimizing that relationship. We are in our 40s and all of our families are quite close. I was merely suggesting that if her mother were aware of the situations we could put our heads together .. and maybe .. JUST MAYBE .. if my friend knew I would go that far to bring her mother up to speed that she would take action.
Secondly, I listen because I care deeply for her .. for them both. I will always be there for my friends. How is that illogical?
Originally Posted by
anvilhead 
your solution is to tell her mommy??? seriously? how old are you guys?
if you don't wanna hear her sob story you don't have to listen. you can say on this matter i can no longer engage with you because we have differing opinions on how this should be handled. you say they have resources, they simply choose not to use them. that's their choice.