Old 11-07-2010, 05:22 PM
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goldengirl3
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Just be thankful you are out of that situation and can now turn your attention to what is best for YOU!
Ugh you have no idea! I remember the last time I saw them, it was one of them's birthday. I had told myself, "I cannot spend one more day with these people." And I didn't. I just knew that was my breaking point. I could not have dragged myself to spend one more evening no matter how short with them.

And of course, I don't miss the abuse and always being expected to be all about him and being blamed for things. Now I get to watch MY tv shows, eat what I choose, not have to pick up 100 checks, not always have to do what someone else wants to do 7 days a week...I'm free! lol.

Not to not admit that I don't miss what the relationship once was...but I'm just relieved. Ugh.
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