In my observations many many guys/girls get it together in early sobriety.
Mainly through the rooms.........lots of needy people wanting to fill the gaping hole left behind by a life time of drinking...imo
A few people i know, it worked out....and they are still together.
but the vast majority fail...........and the consequences of that added pain in early sobriety can appear to make a drink very attractive.
powerful feelings and emotions can blinker us from vital information.
Im asked similar questions by guys i work with often...
Its a risk and the odds of it turning into a love story are slimmer than slim.
and the odds of it turning into a painful mess are high.
this is just my observations.........i have no personal experience of love in the rooms.
well i have a tiny bit........but she knew nothing about it.....lol...lol...