Something smells funny here. Sounds like a bunch of good reasons not to go to meetings! hmm.
Editing to add: When I was done drinking and using, nothing could stop me from pursuing recovery, getting sober, and staying that way.
Are you in a program of your own? Sounds like you're involving yourself a TAD much in her recovery, which is simply her own journey.
Out of curiousity.. why the emphasis on her going to these meetings on her own free will.???