Originally Posted by
dollydo Well, due to my career, I learned that being emotional in the work place, was a deal breaker.
One guy I worked for said "Dolly thinks like a man". I wasn't sure how to take that, men only think with one side of their brain... I guess the otherside is a vast wasteland! Wonder what they do with it? Woman on the other hand use both sides of their brain, we transmit back n forth, thus multi tasking at all times. So I guess I should have felt insulted!
I am neither stuck up or mean, just in control of my emotions. A lot of crying and wining by either men or women make me want to flee the room!
LOL
It took me a looooong time to learn how to deal with things without emotional input or output first, but learning how to see things from logical point first then decide the emotion after.
It also helped that I worked in law office environment for many years and learned the art of negotiation and strategy, and tried to apply it to my life.