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Man....I really try and not judge, for past or present character defects of people I meet. I believe all deserve repect and second chances...but I do have boundaries now that I am in recovery. My brother has been staying with me a few months....went on a drunken binge within the first week here...got kicked out of bars, scared a lady in her back yard by her pool and 2 previous DUI caught up with him..he came up here BECAUSE HIS GIRLFRIEND TRIED TO KILL HIM AND PUT A FENCE POST THROUGH THEIR HOUSE DOOR...

He hasn't drank since the last incident and is taking care of his DUI, but lo and behiold he has to pay his crazy girlfriends lawyer becAUSE SHE HAS HIM CONVINCED THE ONLY REASON SHE WAS FACING 2 FELONIES IS BECAUSE HE CALLED 911. he brought her up here for a week..Oh my oh my I am a patient person and very understanding..but I am not a doormat or receptacle for the kind of negativity blame game stunt she pulled. I have never meant someone so viciously jealous..I see a terrible road ahead for my brother.He is choosing it of course but it infuriates me that he thinks he can always run to me..then talk sh** about me again if I set boundaries! He is a good kid, truly he is...but I just cannot tolerate the mind games his 'fiance' is playing..she has left hateful raging messages on my phone...is just loco en la cabeza....takes NO responsibilty for anything..at all. period. I hate to admit it..but I cannot stand her at all..and do not even feel much sympathy..I just want her to go away..she has made statements about bombing the hell out of his exes place..but won't because my nephew lives there..caught her in lies about him...saying my nephew deliberately broke her tv...my brother says no, it was an accident. I have never seen such rage in a person...my brother says she murderd someone..but it was an acccident..and he admits she is a pain in the a**//but says he can change her!! Just bold a** comes and says he will change her..He is an Aries! LOL....everything he says..I am an Aries. I should not be so upset by this..but it breaks my heart what I see coming...her diatribe about my family....hateful crazy things..off the wall.. crazy. They will be back up here by Monday...she went to court today..only gets probation..no jail time..now I know it is wrong..but I was hoping she would get some jail time so maybe my brother would come to his senses. She is trouble with a capitol T and I am very upset he is bringing her all the from TX...up here..LOL where I am enjoying some peace from all the craziness in TX. Now this...I am about to just let it go...I hve no control over thrm...just kinda protective about the 'niche' I am trying to build..the serenity I am experiencing...I do not like drama....I am just upset about this. They plan on getting married...but I really don't see my brother staying sober when she gets up here...last wekend he wasn't even going to go ahnd get her...but she has him convinced he HAS to....she never said one thing she liked or loved or admired about my brother the whole week up here. I f she didn't watch something on tv..by God she turned it!! Yelled and hollered when the pucnic wasn;'t ready one when they came in..I juts about decked her one!! I did.....my brother says he is just nervous about you liking here..well, too late for that. I have two children to protect..I can't just let anyone around them...not when I know they have a serious violent past..and have done nothing to fix it...At ALL/.SHE IS 42, MY BROTHER 10 YRS YOUNGER...

Well, thanks for listening to my vent.....there is just something gets under my skin so bad about this one..mmmmmmmm..PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE...PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE...........

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