Hey Snick--I am sorry you are struggling. Did you try setting up a date night with your husband? As a recovering alcoholic, I know we can be very selfish. I heard what you said about only seeing your husband 1hr and 15min in two days and couldn't help thinking, "Wow, that is actually alot of time for some couples. Especially after spending the whole day together Monday and the evening on Tuesday." I hope that doesn't sound harsh. I know quite a few couples who are NOT in recovery who struggle to piece together a few hours a WEEK to spend together. It seems to me like you are letting yourself focus on the negative rather than the positive.
Keep communicating with your husband. Did you tell him you were upset about him going to dinner with his sponsor and not inviting you?
I will keep you both in my prayers. If you were an alcohlic, I would say, "Remember, let go and let God." Actually, I would like to say that to you any way.
Hope you have a nice weekend! Don't forget to pray. :lumpy