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Old 07-07-2004, 05:19 PM   #5 (permalink)
David 1
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Angel, I am a Human Resources Director and frequently deal with stressful personnel issues. The one thing I learned is to not make a rash, emotionally charged decision, especially an important one.

Talk it out with friends and family and perhaps give your fiance a final chance to get help and remain sober. Then make a decision and do what's best for everyone.

I was like your fiance and believe me, you are doing him no favors by staying with him in an unhappy situation. It easily could go from bad to worse - that is also the nature of our disease if we do not get help.

You have a lot going for you - just make sure you do the right thing for your family.

Take care

Dave
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