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Hi Rachelle,
Welcome to SR. This is a great place to come for support and understanding.
I'm sorry for your situation and the pain it is causing you. As you've been told, your fiance will not change until he is ready to. The best thing you can do is to look after yourself. If you like, check out the AlAnon forum on this board where there are lots of people with similar problems to yours.
Anna
__________________ Anna 
And I dont know what the future is holding in store
I dont know where Im going, Im not sure where I've been
There's a spirit that guides me, a light that shines for me
My life is worth the living, I dont need to see the end.
John Denver
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