Originally Posted by
praiseHim 
Yes, I do go to church, but need more direct help. I guess I need to really concentrate on going to alanon.
There have been times I was frustrated about help due to lack of funds. That's when I dug even harder into the resources that were available, including Alanon.
I don't know what your income situation is, but I know my mental health center works on a sliding scale for those who don't have health insurance.
Back before I changed the type of health insurance I had, and counseling wasn't covered, I was only charged $5 a session.