spiderman,
you are not alone! i am a female, but i developed a sex addiction on top of the meth addiction. it got to the point that i would not feel like i "could" have sex without being high. ive been clean for 17 months and things have "gotten back to normal" however i now abstain from sex because i dont want to get any STDs or other sorts of trouble.
kimmie,
im sorry about your husband, but i dont think you will ever be able to understand. have you checked out the naranon boards? theres lots of people who know what you are going through. im not sure people (addicts) would "open up" to you about their sexual/drug addictions for the sake up "helping you understand" your husband. its very personal you know. i say, thank your lucky stars it's not YOU with the drug and sex addiction and focus on YOURSELF.
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