((((((((((((((((((mike)))))))))))))))))),
You did good babe!! I believe honesty will help more than it hurts even if it hurts at first. Telling the truth can be kinda like having a necessary surgery. Still, the hurt ain't nothing like what believing lies does to a person. I believe you did your wife a favor. She's in a place where she has a lot of time to think it is good she is going to have some truth bouncing around in her brain and it might turn her thinking around.
Mike you have come a long way since I met you. I know you are a very compassionate person and, that you want what is best for you and your family. The truth will set you and her free and it doesn't have to mean you won't be together. What it could mean is that you won't have any illusions and that you will find
real love instead of sickness. I am all the way for it working out for the two of you. You keep truth up front and follow it's light and don't be afraid. 1 more
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Take care!!