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Old 12-12-2009, 05:52 AM
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member31986
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Pittsburgh PA
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Its pretty amazing how "functional" the alcoholic can be from your stories. As I said, my AH says he wants to not drink but until he really does something about it, I don't give him much hope. I know he misses me in bed but I feel that because I always caved, something has to change...me.. since I know I can't change him and that route never worked in the past. Oh I am sure he will quit (for a while) and seem to be "normal" but without some support group inplace, odds are againist him. It is sad because he really is a good man and I hate to see his dimise due to this addiction. Hopefully I will be able to stand my ground, get a job and feel at least somewhat secure in my actions. My life and possibly his will depend upon it. thanks to all for your stories, keep them coming...misery loves company...and it appears I have alot of that here.
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